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PRISON MENTALITY

People who have been raised in bondage all their lives don’t know how to be free, so even when they are released they still remain in captivity because that’s all they know. It’s like a bird that has been raised in a cage all its life, even when the door to the cage is open & it is free it won’t hop out and fly away because the cage is all it knows. It is gripped by fear of the unknown. A similar situation is found in the prison system. When you see kids that get caught up in the juvenile detention system, if they are there for a long period of time they become accustomed to that life style and their mindset changes about themselves & life. The enemy then brings in the spirit of fear & defeat. They become depressed & get caught in a cycle. They are in bondage in their minds thinking they have ruined their lives & they give up. Eventually they end up making more mistakes if they don’t have someone there for them to help them turn things around. Then these mistakes land them in prison. If they are in the prison system for any length of time they become accustomed to that life style. They have all freedoms taken from them. They are told when to eat, where to go, when to take a bath, when to sleep. They are restricted from moving around freely. After a while they learn to adapt to being told what to do every day, all day & the prison mentality of doing what it takes to survive takes over. They go about their day & find a survival existence in the system. Their bodies and minds are in bondage. If they are there long enough this type of bondage life becomes the only way to live that they know. They don’t even realize when it happens but it changes who they are & it becomes part of them. They get stuck in the mode of thinking like a prisoner & even when they are released most are never able to go back into normal society because the bondage of prison has attacked & affected them to the core of their being. It changes their outlook on everything. They lose the sense of freedom of even the most basic foundational things of life like boundaries within a normal relationship. This type of deception where the foundation of man and woman relationships that God has ordained from the foundation of the earth is attacked daily by the enemy, because if he can break the very foundation of marriage between a man and woman, then the marriage of the Bridegroom (Jesus) to his Bride (the church) is seen by this world as wrong. So the enemy will use this type of bondage to pervert the very foundation of how we think about personal relationships. The bible references this as when men turn from the natural use of women and women turn from the natural use of men. Marriage between a man and woman is the perfect order of things as set by God. He is our Husband and we are the Bride of Christ. People who live in prison loose trust in others & even themselves. When they come home, depending on how long they were there they have little to no job or social skills other than what they learned in prison so holding a job or having normal family life is hard for them. That brings frustration due to no job and no money. They feel defeated & sometimes offend again & end up back in prison. Some even offend again on purpose because they can’t handle life on the outside and want to get back to the only normal they have ever known… living in bondage. Most times they can’t adjust because even though their bodies are free their minds and emotions are still in bondage because that life is all they have ever known. Even though they are physically free, they are still mentally bound & don’t know how to walk in the freedom they have been given. Just like the children of Israel lived in Goshen & were in bondage, they learned to adapt to their environment. They lived daily life, they worked, they got married, had relationships, had children, had families, they worshipped God, yet they were slaves to Egypt. They were told where to go, when to go, what to do every day & were beaten and killed if they didn’t. They became accustomed to that lifestyle to the point that when they were finally free they didn’t know what to do & so they told Moses that it was better in Egypt because they had food & shelter. They had a life there. They forgot about the bondage being bad because it had become a part of who they were, not just a way of life. They prayed to be free yet when they became free they could not handle it & even turned back in their hearts & made the golden calf. Even though they were physically free, they were still held captive in their minds. They had a prisoner mentality & fear of the unknown gripped their hearts. They disobeyed God & this caused them to be lost wondering in the dessert for 40 years. The generation that was mentally in bondage wandered in the wilderness until they died off. They were never able to get past the mental bondage and prison mentality. They were out of Egypt (prison) but Egypt was not out of them. That generation died in the wilderness. It was the next generation that entered into the promise land. The next generation was not a generation that was born into bondage, nor had they become accustomed to living in bondage and didn’t have the prison mentality. They physical bondage that the children of Israel and the prisoners of today that populate our prison system have suffered is the most obvious type of bondage; however, there are many types of bondage. 

Types of bondage:

  • Physical bondage – We have already discussed this type of bondage. It is the most obvious type.
  • Mental bondage – Some people suffer from mental bondage that others do not even realize is there because this type of bondage is unseen to the naked eye. This one is recognized through discerning of spirits, which is a gift from God. This can stem from
    • Childhood abuse

    • Oppression

    • Made to feel worthless

    • Told they are no good

    • Beaten or physical abused to control them

    • Molested / raped / coursed into sexual behaviors not normal for their age. 

    **Actions that happened to us as children hold us in bondage as adults when we try to step out on faith & do things in our natural life as well as our Spiritual life. When we are called out by God to a deeper walk with Him & He calls us to move in the Holy Ghost the devil whispers in our ear "Who do you think you are to talk to or witness to anyone?" Or he will say things like "Remember you are nothing, even your parents said so." Then the voices of your past scream at you & you are gripped by the spirit of fear. You feel like you are not worthy to be used by God. You feel self-condemnation come over you & you step back from the task God as called you to do and the cycle of bondage continues. BUT... I am here to tell you that you can be free from this bondage. The Bible says that the Kingdom suffers violence and the violent taketh the kingdom by force... This means when the enemy attacks you... FIGHT BACK!! TAKE THE KINGDOM BY FORCE. Press forward in spite of the attacks and thoughts in your mind, of your past that are coming from hell to defeat you before you even try to walk in victory for God.

  • Spouse abuse
    • Oppression / depression

    • Fear tactics / intimidation

    • Feelings of worthlessness

    • Physical abuse

    • Jealousy / controlling behavior / stalking

    • Death or threats of death

    • Molested / raped / coursed into sexual behaviors (YES! a spouse can rape a spouse... NO MEANS NO!! even in marriage) 

    **This type of abuse is a continuation of childhood abuse but not just in the fact that the person being abused is trapped in the bondage of what happened to them as a child. This type of abuse also stems from someone that was abused as a child, now becoming an abuser to regain the control over their lives that was stolen from them as a child. HURTING PEOPLE, HURT PEOPLE. The person hurting you may be harboring un-forgiveness for someone that abused them in their childhood. When you never allow yourself to forgive your hurts from your past and you never allow yourself to heal, you never move forward... Forgiving the people that hurt you doesn't make them right... it makes you free. The Bible says forgive so you can be forgiven, this includes forgiving yourself. You become stuck in a perpetual place of un-forgiveness if you never forgive yourself, because even if God forgives you, you can't fully receive it until you forgive yourself!

  • Parental abuse (Children abusing their parents is not spoken of very much but it happens more often than you think)
  • Oppression / depression
  • Made to feel like they are never good enough
  • Children use “guilt trips” on their parents to get what they way.
    • You love the other children more than me.

    • You never do anything for me.

    • What type of mother are you anyway?

    • My friends parents let her do it…

  • Manipulation / coercion
  • Fear tactics
    • I’ll run away.

    • I’ll kill myself.

    • I’ll call DCF on you if you don’t give me what I want.

  • Physically attacked or threats of physical attacks by children towards parents
  • Abuse of power in friendships / business relationships
  • Quid pro quo
    • If you don’t do this for me I will fire you.

    • If you do this for me I will make sure you get that raise.

  • Guilt trips
    • If you were really my friend you would let me use your car

    • Well, I did this or that for you and you never do anything for me

    • Oh never mind I will get so-n-so to do it for me. They are a better friend to me anyway.

  • Fear tactics
    • Well, if you don’t take me I will just find someone more loyal

  • Physical intimidation
  • Threats of harm
  • Stalking
  • Verbal attacks
  • Slander
    • Posting negative comments on social media for your boss or friends to see

    • Posting untrue information to harm your relationships or business

  • Mental intimidation / coercion
  • Playing head games
    • Oh if you don’t do what I say I will tell everyone about what you did with so-n-so the other night.

    • Remember I know what you did with that boy last night

    • If you don’t do this with me I will tell everyone we did anyway so you may as well.

    • Emotional Bondage (psychological bondage)

  • Child abuse
    • Yelling / screaming

    • Fear tactics / intimidation

    • Told they are nothing

    • Told they are stupid

    • Made to feel defeated

    • Made to feel worthless

    • Told they will never amount to anything

  • Spousal abuse
  • Yelling / screaming
  • Fear tactics / intimidation
  • Threats of harm
  • Stalking
  • Verbal attacks
  • Slander
    • Posting negative comments on social media for your boss or friends to see

    • Posting untrue information to harm your relationships or business

    • You posting things about others to ruin their business or relationships.

  • Being Told they are nothing
  • Being Told they are stupid
  • Made to feel defeated
  • Made to feel worthless
    • Abuse of power in friendships / business relationships



  • Quid pro quo
    • If you don’t do this for me I will fire you.

    • If you do this for me I will make sure you get that raise.

  • Guilt trips
    • If you were really my friend you would let me use your car

    • Well, I did this or that for you and you never do anything for me

    • Oh never mind I will get so-n-so to do it for me. They are a better friend to me anyway.

  • Fear tactics
    • Well, if you don’t take me I will just find someone more loyal

  • Physical intimidation
  • Threats of harm
  • Stalking
  • Verbal attacks
  • Slander
    • Posting negative comments on social media for your boss or friends to see

    • Posting untrue information to harm your relationships or business

  • Mental intimidation / coercion
  • Playing head games
    • Oh if you don’t do what I say I will tell everyone about what you did with so-n-so the other night.

    • Remember I know what you did with that boy last night

    • If you don’t do this with me I will tell everyone we did anyway so you may as well.

    • Spiritual Bondage (the battle ground is in your mind)
      The enemy uses the other three types of bondage listed above to lay the foundation for this one. When we are born, every ounce of spiritual potential is breathed into us. At that point, all of heaven rejoices and all of hell says, “Oh, we have to kill this one right now!” So the quest or plot of hell begins from that point on to destroy you because the enemy recognizes the spiritual potential locked up in you that can cause serious harm to hell’s kingdom and agenda. The attacks begin from birth with some of us with mental and emotional abuse or neglect that builds a broken foundation for us to stand on. We may be physically free from birth but we are spiritually bound. This type of bondage comes with:

      Spiritual oppressionFrom family, friends and “church folks”Harsh looksHarsh words that are meant from the enemy to discourage our walk before it even begins.Imaginations that exalts themselves against the knowledge of Christ (the battle ground is in our minds)Thoughts of your pastImpure thoughttemptations from the enemyDemonic attacks (this includes mental, emotional & physical attacks)Dreamsbeing attacked in your sleepPhysical possession by demonic forcesthis is a higher level attackImpressionThoughtsImaginationsSickness in our body & mind (the Bible says the wages of sin is death. Our own sins can open the door for this attack)Physical sickness & diseaseMental illness or disorderDepression (this also falls under mental illness)OppressionFeelings of worthlessnessConfusion (this is a specific spirit)Division (this is a specific spirit that has come to divide and concur)Spirit of blindnessPhysical blindnessSpiritual blindness2 Corinthians 4:4King James Version (KJV) 4 In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine unto them.Fear (this is a specific spirit)There are two types of fear mentioned in the Bible. The spirit of fear, which can be harmful to us. (2 Tim 1:7)The Fear of God, which is a reverence of our Lord knowing & respecting His greatness. (Ps. 111:10 also see Ps. 34:7)Scriptural reference for the “Spirit of Fear”:Gen. 3:8-10 8 And they heard the voice of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God amongst the trees of the garden.9 And the Lord God called unto Adam, and said unto him, Where art thou?10 And he said, I heard thy voice in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked; and I hid myself.Matthew 28:4 4 And for fear of him the keepers did shake, and became as dead men.Luke 2:8-9 8 And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.9 And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.Romans 8:15 15 For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.1 John 4:18 18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.Scriptural reference for the “Fear of the Lord”:Gen. 22:11-13 11 And the angel of the Lord called unto him out of heaven, and said, Abraham, Abraham: and he said, Here am I.12 And he said, Lay not thine hand upon the lad, neither do thou anything unto him: for now I know that thou fearest God, seeing thou hast not withheld thy son, thine only son from me.13 And Abraham lifted up his eyes, and looked, and behold behind him a ram caught in a thicket by his horns: and Abraham went and took the ram, and offered him up for a burnt offering in the stead of his son.Ex. 1:16-18 16 And he said, When ye do the office of a midwife to the Hebrew women, and see them upon the stools; if it be a son, then ye shall kill him: but if it be a daughter, then she shall live. 17 But the midwives feared God, and did not as the king of Egypt commanded them, but saved the men children alive. 18 And the king of Egypt called for the midwives, and said unto them, Why have ye done this thing, and have saved the men children alive?Prov 2:1-6 1 My son, if thou wilt receive my words, and hide my commandments with thee; 2 So that thou incline thine ear unto wisdom, and apply thine heart to understanding; 3 Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding; 4 If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures; 5 Then shalt thou understand the fear of the Lord, and find the knowledge of God. 6 For the Lord giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.Eph. 5:18-21 18 And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit; 19 Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; 20 Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; 21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.1 Peter 2:17 17 Honour all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honour the king.Scriptural reference for conquering the “spirit of fear”:Deut. 31:6 6 Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee.1 Sam. 12:14 14 If ye will fear the Lord, and serve him, and obey his voice, and not rebel against the commandment of the Lord, then shall both ye and also the king that reigneth over you continue following the Lord your God: 15 But if ye will not obey the voice of the Lord, but rebel against the commandment of the Lord, then shall the hand of the Lord be against you, as it was against your fathers. 16 Now therefore stand and see this great thing, which the Lord will do before your eyes.2 Kings 17:37 37 And the statutes, and the ordinances, and the law, and the commandment, which he wrote for you, ye shall observe to do for evermore; and ye shall not fear other gods.Ps. 27:1 27 The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?Ps. 40:3 3 And he hath put a new song in my mouth, even praise unto our God: many shall see it, and fear, and shall trust in the Lord.Ps. 56:3-4 3 What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee. 4 In God I will praise his word, in God I have put my trust; I will not fear what flesh can do unto me.Ps. 61:5 5 For thou, O God, hast heard my vows: thou hast given me the heritage of those that fear thy name.Acts 10:1-2 1 There was a certain man in Caesarea called Cornelius, a centurion of the band called the Italian band, 2 A devout man, and one that feared God with all his house, which gave much alms to the people, and prayed to God always.
    All of these types of Bondage create in us a Prisoner Mentality and kill a part of our soul & even follow us all our lives creating a pattern of bondage that stops us from becoming a productive adult.


    It will cause:


    • Low self-esteem.

    • Broken relationships due to lack of confidence in our self & lack of trust in others.

    • It can cause us to fail at obtaining life skills / training / educational goals & stunt our career goals due to lack of confidence in ourselves.

    • Spiritual walk with God.

    • When God calls you out and helps you change, saves you & fills you with the Holy Ghost, if you don’t allow Him access to those secret, hidden, broken places in your heart & mind then even though you are free from sin, you are still living with a prisoner mentality to your past. Just remember God can never give you more of your future than you give Him of your past. The enemy will use our hidden past against us. When God calls us out & says “go pray for that person”, most times before we can even move from our pew the enemy starts talking. You will hear him saying things like: “where are you going?”, “Who do you think you are?”, “You aint nobody!”, “How are you gonna pray for someone & you know what you did with that person when you were 17 years old?” & “You know you need to sit down.” Then the spirit of fear comes in. We are gripped with the fear of the future, the unknown, fear of public opinion, fear of failure, because of the voices from your Mom who was caught in the same cycle & never got out of the bondage herself so she drug you into that generational curse of prisoner mentality that the enemy has had the women in your family in for over 100 years because he knew you would be the next Ruth or the Next Esther and save your whole nation so he laid that plot 100 years back to attempt to stop you with prisoner mentality before you were even born because he knows that I you are ever strong enough to go boldly before your king that the king we serve will stretch out his scepter and draw you near & through this act you will set your people free. The enemy doesn’t want you free because that means he has to set your future generations free too! You want your children free? Go before the King. You want your grandchildren free? God before the King. You want your spouse free? Go before the King. You want to be free? GO BEFORE YOUR KING!!! He will set you free and break the chains of generational Prisoner mentality and bondage. He will break all the chains of bondage not only for you but your upcoming generations as well. You and all your future generations will be free when you make up your mind to not just be physically free but mentally, emotionally & spiritually free as well! The veil was rent & you can come boldly to the KING of your SALVATION.
    He says: “COME!”


    Blessings from the desk of:

    ~*Sister Soldier*~

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